Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking: A Journey from Kindergarten to Confidence
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5 Key Points of the Podcast Episode:
Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking: Dr. Robert Rohm discusses how public speaking is one of the most common fears, comparable to the fear of being burned by fire, and offers insights on how to conquer this anxiety.
The Power of Having Something to Say: He emphasizes that effective public speaking starts with standing up and sharing a meaningful message, highlighting that the message's importance surpasses any personal apprehensions.
The Message Over the Messenger: Through a compelling story from his college days, Dr. Rohm illustrates that delivering crucial information is more important than worrying about how one is perceived by the audience.
Understanding Personality Styles Enhances Communication: By explaining the DISC model of human behavior, he shows how recognizing different personality types can improve communication and make public speaking more effective.
Public Speaking Skills Can Be Learned and Improved: Dr. Rohm introduces his Speakers Boot Camp as an opportunity for anyone to develop and refine their public speaking abilities, reinforcing that these skills are essential and attainable for personal and professional growth.
In most surveys, the two biggest fears people have are being burned to death by fire and public speaking. Can you imagine that? The thought of standing up in front of others scares folks almost as much as the idea of being caught in a fire.
Well, I won't be tackling how to escape a fire today, but I do want to help you overcome the fear of public speaking.
Hi, I'm Dr. Robert Rohm. I've been speaking for close to 70 years now. My first experience was at my kindergarten graduation back in 1954. I was the master of ceremonies, dressed in a white tuxedo, welcoming everyone and introducing our play, "Goldilocks and the Three Bears." I still remember that moment vividly.
Looking back, I realize my teachers must have noticed that I loved to talk. They gave me the chance to stand up and speak, and that simple act set the stage for the rest of my life.
Over the years, I've learned that public speaking is less about talent and more about having something to say. I once taught a class of fourth graders this simple lesson: the secret to effective speaking is to stand up and speak. It sounds obvious, but it's true. The best speakers are those who have something to say and aren't afraid to say it.
I also remember a story from my college days that changed my perspective on public speaking forever. My speech teacher, Dr. Seymour, told us about walking past a friend's house at 2 a.m. and noticing it was on fire. He asked us what kind of friend would he be if he didn't do everything possible to alert them.
The point was clear: when you have an important message, it's your duty to share it, no matter how nervous you might feel. The message is more important than the messenger.
Understanding different personality styles has also been key in my journey. Some people are outgoing and task-oriented, others are reserved and people-oriented. Knowing your own style and how to communicate with others can make a huge difference in how your message is received.
That's why I'm passionate about our Speakers Boot Camp. We hold it twice a year in Atlanta, Georgia. It's a three-day event where we help people from all walks of life become confident, effective speakers. We have a team of coaches representing different personality styles who provide personalized feedback.
Even Warren Buffett has said that public speaking is one of the most valuable skills you can learn. It's not just about speaking to large crowds; it's about communicating your message effectively in any situation.
So, whether you're a teacher, a business professional, or someone who simply wants to share their story, I invite you to consider taking this step. Overcoming the fear of public speaking can open doors you never imagined.
Remember, the world needs your voice. Don't let fear hold you back from sharing your important message.
Thank you for taking the time to read this. I look forward to connecting with you soon.
Warm regards,
Dr. Robert Rohm
